Give it all you've got and don’t give up. It’s probably going to take a lot of time, a lot of searching, and a lot of really shitty jobs to figure out exactly what your purpose is, but when you do, go for it. These people are not the norm and you should not compare yourself to them unless you want to feel desperately behind in every aspect of your life. Anyone that claims to have always known what they wanted to be when they grew up is a liar, a freak of nature or both. It’s ridiculous that we expect 18–22-year-olds to figure out what they want to do with their lives. But once you realize that you don’t have to figure everything out on your own, you’ll notice that a lot of the scary things in life aren’t quite as scary as they first seemed. Some people won’t help, some people will suck at helping you and some will ask you why you're calling at 3am on a Wednesday with questions about 401ks. Call someone right now and ask them for help with whatever has been plaguing your noodle lately. Spend a night and two bottles of wine grieve-crying to friends and move on.Īsk for help all the damn time. ![]() Still dying to know why? Fine, put down the phone with the three-page hate text at the ready and I’ll tell you. ![]() Did someone you were seeing disappear mid-text and never resurface? Don’t panic. This comes in handy particularly when it comes to dating. And if even after you’ve spoken up a time or two and this person still insists on being an asshole - ditch ‘em. Shit, people aren’t even really good listeners, but you should still speak up. When something happens and it makes you mad, sad, irritated, uncomfortable…say something. Frozen may have the “Let It Go” mantra stuck in your head for the rest of eternity, but Disney isn’t always right.
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